TOP TEN TIPS FOR PARENTS AND FAMILIES ON RAISING TEENAGERS

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 Introduction

Parenting is not always easy. The teenage years can be particularly challenging because teens can act like adults one moment and act like children the next. You might find these pointers useful as highlighted below

1. Conflict is normal. Your teenager is learning to be independent, so conflict with them is not always bad. Try not to panic. Consider the arguments presented by your teen and decide which ones merit a position.

2. Establish Specific Guidelines for what is acceptable. 

Expect teenagers to do the same when you tell them where you're going, who you're going with, and when you'll be back. Setting boundaries shows that you care about teens, who need clear guidelines just as much as younger children do.

3. Respect their points of view. 

Don't assume that teens will agree with everything you say. Opinions and people are put to the test during adolescence. Teens and their parents sometimes have to agree on something. If you respect your teenager's opinions, they are more likely to respect your own.

4. Show Your Interest 

Inform your teen that you are interested in their activities at home and school. Provide assistance and direction with homework and revision. Encourage them to talk about how they feel and keep an eye on where they are and who they are with, but be careful not to turn interest into pressure.

5. Spend Time Together  

Your relationship may be changing as your child grows up. Spend time together doing everyday activities. The adolescent years are fun and exciting. Have fun; they will soon be adults. Inform them that you will never stop being there for them.

6. Take the Time to Talk and Listen. Teens claim that their parents don't listen to them. Make it clear to your teen that you have time to talk with them, and share your values, but don't force them on them. Take the time to listen to your teenager if they want to talk.

7. Give Them Some Room 

We All Need Some Time for Ourselves. Teenagers require their own space, alone time, and the right to refrain from disclosing all aspects of their lives to their parents. Try to remember what it was like for your teen to have privacy and respect it.

8. Encourage Them 

It's just as important to encourage and care about your teen as it is to praise them. When they do something that pleases you, thank them for their efforts and let them know. Even if you don't hear from them, don't be afraid to tell them how much you love them.

9. Tell them about your mistakes  

 The things you would do differently if you could. Share your life experiences with them. Don't overprotect them; let them learn from the consequences of their actions. 

10. Take Care of Yourself 

Parents today have a challenging job, but they don't have to be perfect. Take care of yourself and find people with whom you can talk when you need to. Try to spend some time reflecting on your priorities and life.

In Conclusions 

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